Valentine and love. Unbreakable bond. Generally, people who don’t have a date are getting anxious to see all the love in the February air, and all brands are making efforts to promote love and sell their products. Offices are making their employees wear red outfits. That will change the fact that a person doesn’t have a partner or they are not happy in their relationship, and merely changing outfit color won’t make them feel loved. Or satisfied.
Missing Valentine and Love?
“When you are missing someone, time seems to move slower, and when I’m falling in love with someone, time seems to be moving faster,” Says Taylor Swift, a romance and heartbreak expert, told Billboard of the inspiration behind her album “Red” in October 2012.
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You make all these efforts hoping that you feel loved; sometimes, they work, and sometimes, they don’t. But how does it feel to be loved? What changes in your surroundings or within you make a person make so many efforts?
We always listen that the right person will love you the way you deserve to. But how can you conclude what deserves you? Everyone is flawed and imperfect, but they will always strive to give you the best they have. Love with them is not perfect, yet it will feel so right. There is comfortable silence when both of you are together. You find yourself able to open up to them, from your most painful memories to things you have never told anyone.
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“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo. But you want someone who’ll help you catch the bus,” Oprah Winfrey told People magazine in a rare 1992 interview about her relationship with her long-time partner, Stedman Graham.
Life Takes a Turn: Chasing Serious Roles
But Matthew wasn’t content with just being a heartthrob. He wanted to tackle more challenging roles. He played a tough lawyer in “A Time to Kill” and a hitman in “Killer Joe.” These characters were complicated and far from the charming guys he played before.
With the right person, love is effortless and you don’t have to try too hard. You can tell them anything under the sun and the conversation flows naturally. There is open communication instead of game and deceit. It doesn’t matter what you do or where you go because being with them is an adventure. You’re keen to do life with them.
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Love allows you to embrace yourself. It inspires you to grow into a better version of yourself. With the right person, you’re comfortable being yourself. You don’t feel like you’re competing for their time or their affection. With them, love is mutual and both of you always choose each other.
No matter the obstacles that loom ahead or the uncertainties that lurk in the dark, both of you remain committed and faithful to each other. As Will Smith told HuffPost of his relationship with Jada Pinkett Smith, “The central idea of love is not even a relationship commitment, the first thing is a personal commitment to be the best version of yourself with or without that person that you’re with. You have to every single day — mind, body, and spirit — wake up with a commitment to be better.”
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I want to tell you that it doesn’t matter how badly hurt you were in the past, you will find love again. The best part is that you will find the one you deserve without having to chase for it. Just like one movie ‘Jab Tak Hai Jaan’ says about love,
In 2020, Matthew dropped some severe wisdom in his memoir called “Greenlights.” It’s not just about acting; it’s about life. He shares experiences and lessons that can inspire anyone, no matter what they’re chasing in life. It’s like having a cool older brother giving you advice!
“Har ishq ka ek waqt hota hai … woh hamara waqt nahi tha … par iska yeh matlab nahi ki woh ishq nahi tha”
Translation: Every love has its own time … that time was not ours … but that doesn’t mean that we were not in love”
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